What is hypnotherapy?
Hypnotherapy is working with the subconscious, the part of our minds that controls of a lot of our feelings, habits and thoughts. During hypnotherapy, the conscious part of your mind quietens down, allowing the subconscious to take over. Once that happens, the subconscious becomes much more open to taking on positive ideas. Effectively, it’s a way of making changes within the subconscious.
How does a hypnotherapy session work?
It’s a bit like being in a daydream.It is actually a heightened state of awareness.Guided through a relaxation process helping you in to go to a deep, calm part of yourself .
What are the common illness and afflictions that people come to you with?
Can anyone be hypnotised?
Yes, but hypnotherapy is not something you can do against your will. It won’t work for someone who has been forced to undergo it; someone whose partner, for instance, insists they quit smoking. That said, anyone has the potential to get into the state of mind where they become more receptive to suggestions. But obviously, wanting to be there and being open to the experience will help things.
What about ‘stage-hypnosis’, the classic scenario where the hypnotist snaps their finger and the participant starts doing a chicken dance - are they actually aware of what they’re doing?
The people up on the stage have generally been vetted in some way before the show and will be someone who wants to be onstage and part of it. Subconsciously they are committed to going along with whatever the hypnotist asks them.
With hypnotherapy, you’re in control and you can’t be made to do something you don’t want to do. In a therapy session, it’s about helping the person, not about entertainment.
How much do you have to know about someone for hypnosis to be successful?
The hypnotherapist will have a discussion about you and as sessions go along, people often emerge and we might go more deeply into it. But they don’t have to know every detail of someone’s life in order to help them make a change.
Do people interact during sessions?
Yes, clients might be ask questions to get to the root of things.
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Begin by feeling into your body lying here.
Feeling the areas of contact at this moment. Where your feet are touching the ground. The legs, your back, the arms, the head.
Noticing your breath, entering and leaving your body.
The intention of the this is to be present with our body without wanting anything at all. Not even relaxation. Of course, it’s nice to relax and its great if it happens, but that is not the goal of the body scan. The goal is to be checking in with each area of the body in a non-judgmental way. We simply feel what is there to feel. No need to stir up sensations by moving the body.
You will notice that there are a number of areas in the body that you might not be able to feel at all. And that is normal and ok. Just check into those areas as if you could feel something.
Starting with the feet, feeling into both feet right now.
Feeling into the areas where your feet are touching the ground or chair.
Maybe feeling your toes – or not. Maybe feeling tingling or temperature.
Now moving the attention to your ankles and lower legs. What is here to feel – if anything at all? Pressure of your calves against the mat? Perhaps the fabric against the skin?
And if you notice that your attention is suddenly somewhere else, just gently returning it to your legs. It’s not a problem at all, the mind likes to wander.
If you find it helpful you can imagine that you are breathing into your lower legs. As if your attention could ride on the breath. Or as if your attention would light up the area like it was a flash light.
Now letting go of the lower legs and moving the attention to your knees and thighs, what do you feel, again maybe pressure, temperature, the position of your legs, or nothing at all, numbness counts as a sensation in this practice.
Noticing that thinking about an area or picturing it in your mind’s eye is different from actually feeling it.
Now letting go of the thighs and moving the attention to the lower trunk. The pelvis and the tummy up to the tummy button. Noticing any sensations in this area. Maybe feeling the breath in the tummy or maybe not.
Then letting go and now feeling into the upper trunk … the stomach area… the chest, feeling the sensations of the breath here… with each inhalation and exhalation.
Feeling the spine against the floor, noticing any sensations that are here or the absence of sensations.
From here now moving the attention into your hands. Feeling your hands, you might notice how well you can feel your hands without having to see the, feeling individual fingers/position of hands.
When you are ready, moving the attention to the wrists/forearms. What is here to feel? Touch/ Pressure: Warmth?
Moving attention to your elbows and upper arms. Noticing any sensations here. And if your mind wanders off, just bringing It back to wherever we are. Just starting again.
From here, moving the attention to your shoulders, back of your neck and then your head. Feeling into your jaw, face, mouth nose, cheeks, eyes, forehead, your entire face.
Now opening the awareness to include the entire body again, being alive, breathing.
If you like, imagining to be breathing from the crown of your head all the way down into your toes and up and out again.
Noticing all the sensations of the body and allowing them to be just as they are in this moment.
Allowing some movement back into the body, like wiggling your fingers and toes. Stretching the body. Coming all the way back into the room.Just take a few moments to notice what sensations are present in your body right now observe the thoughts going through your mind and check in with the emotions of this moment.
Starting the Day
Starting your mindfulness right when you wake up requires taking stock of yourself. Hear the sounds outside, notice your breath, look around the room.
Dial your senses into the sensations you encounter as you shower, get dressed, and eat breakfast; all of the things that we do in the morning. Mindfulness incorporates a keen attention to the little details. Make your morning count, be present in it. Don’t think about that meeting at 11 or the presentation this afternoon. Taste the eggs and toast on your plate in front of you at this very moment. You are laying the groundwork for the rest of your day.
Arriving at Work
When you get to the office, don’t get distracted by the inevitable bombardment of information and distractions that are inherent in a workplace environment. Emails, files, voicemails, phone calls, your boss and co-workers, all of them provide continuous, multi-layered stimuli that can affect your mood from one minute to the next. Even the nature of the work that you’re tasked with completing can bring on large amounts of stress quickly.
But try not to get caught up in all of it. Stop periodically. Take a deep breath. Check in with all of your senses. Do some quiet meditations from time to time, it can take the form of a short walk to the break room, sitting upright quietly at your desk for a brief minute, or listening to a calming piece of music in a pair of earphones.
Remaining centered throughout the day will go a long way towards improving your mood and productivity.
Stop and Think First
The fast-paced nature of a successful workplace can threaten to overwhelm anyone into a stressed rhythm. This may cause undue amounts of pressure and force us to react hastily. How you respond to things is a large part of practicing mindfulness in your daily life. Being more conscious of your practice at work will probably take a greater commitment at first, but the more you remain aware of yourself and your surroundings the easier it will come.
Many of us tend to react quickly to stimuli, because we automatically feel that is the required action in certain situations. Instead, take pause and deal with the stimuli around you in measured answers. The same goes for solving difficult challenges and problems that might occur during the day. A crisis is not an excuse for you to stop being mindful, in fact it’s a call for you to focus on your training even harder.
The Little Things
Mindfulness comes at all times and in all things. It’s not only about staying in the present and focusing on your behavior when people or situations become intense, it’s also about noticing the minute details and remaining present in them constantly. The way you respond to stress starts in how you react to the little things.
Take pause and just notice the hum of the computer, the way the coffee tastes as you sip, re-read that email because you may have missed something the first time. Remain attentive in everything that you do. It will make the difference between having a good day at the office and one you’ll want to forget. Try it right now as you’re reading this article. Look around you. What do you see, hear, and feel?
These are the building blocks to becoming more mindful.
Research studies have found that people who practice mindfulness irrespective of whether they had practised meditation before or not reports:Feeling less stressed, anxious and depressed, happier, inspired, satisfied with life.
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As a professional footballer, if he is fortunate, begins his career as a child and ends it as an adult having known nothing but the same well-organised, rigorous daily schedule. There are even some of us who spend all those best physical years of our youth and adulthood at the same club.
Institutionalised is a description I would apply to my life as a footballer at Manchester United.
I had been there from the age of 14 to 42, and my life had been so distinctively shaped by the rhythm of life at Old Trafford that I realised, when it was coming to the end last year, I had to make some preparations for the change.
Aaron Lennon’s story has made mental health of footballers an issue again and I think that for his sake and everyone else in the game it is important to be open about how we feel as professionals, and how we cope with stress.
I know that those outside of the game will point to our wages and the kind of lives we live and to an extent that does cushion us from the challenges that many face, but it does not make us immune.